09 May 2014

We have many Soulmates

I've long thought about this idealistic idea that there is one person in our lifetime that will miraculously come into our lives and be our forever love.
Our Soulmate.
There are other names Twin Flame, Starmate, twin souls, in older terms my better half...
A soulmate is a spirit/being whom we have spent many lives with in our souls karmic reincarnational journey. This includes animals, Beings from other worlds, Faerie folk, dimensions and channeled Beings who haven't taken on material form.
Anywhere that we can reincarnate into our soulmates can be from...

Seth says that souls travel in groups of 70 I'm not one for rules or set facts, but from this I get the information that we travel in groups from lifetime to lifetime.
In this way we can play off each other and have the negative and positive experiences with each other seeing both sides of the experiences.

The first soulmates in our lives are our families for better or for worse... and yes it does happen that sometimes we are born into families that don't have deep connections to us and we feel like an outsider. Then we are drawn to to others who 'feel' more like family. There is a purpose in everything and so for each individual it happens in a different way.

I remember at one point in my life I made a directed effort to find my soulmates that are not family... ones that were in past lives but I had not met yet in this one. That was in the old BBS days and to my amazement many of them were online! We had so much in common and used to travel a round like a pack for a few years even though we were all ages from 18 to 40 we were all of the same mindset. One of them and I would all of a sudden say the same sentence at the same time. All of us were very intuitive and I remember it as being a fun time and we all went through a lot of changes and healing.
That time also brought forth soulmates that churned up old issues that had to be dealt with and was very hurtful but I tend not to focus on the negative.

If you think about how many experiences we have over a lifetime and multiply that by uncountable lives... that's a lot of soulmates.

They all have different purposes in meeting up with us in a certain time frame, in certain lives...
I believe that all of the love relationships I have had in my life thus far are of a soulmate status. Each relationship has been clearing the rubble of past lives, left behind, and creating a new slate of energy to write on. Even the abusive marriage I went through, in it, I had dreams of when I was being abusive to the person who now was doing it to me. In everything there is balance.

This life that I am living now is a clearing life... it's wrapping up loose ends form other lifetimes. It has brought in so many issues to deal with and look at honestly. Living this life is much easier knowing this because looking back over my life, it's quite a jumble, without that knowledge.

So whats a soulmate? a love mate?
There are MANY that wait their whole life for that one love... turning away all opportunities for that one perfect state of bliss...
My message to you is that some may have written this experience into this lifetime and that is their calling. I know of several truly soulmate couples and happy ones at that. They know they are soulmates even if they are not on a spiritual path. They say they were meant to be with each other or made for each other. They also don't just stay with each other because they are afraid of being alone. It's much more than that.
For the majority of us, slugging it out on the earth at this time. there are many Soulmate relationships. They come in all different forms, shapes and sizes.
Great love comes in many forms and in each form the appreciation is in the acceptance, understanding and in the seeing it through.
Not in abandoning it or not cherishing it because you are waiting for that blissful state that might not come in your lifetime. Sometimes chosen soulmate relationships take a lot of work!

You may not have a prince or princess waiting for that precious chance encounter... but you might have a few others that are there to make connections and help you in your current journey of understanding. You might find those soulmates that are waiting for you to wake them up spirituality... I have had this happen quite a few times.

Don't miss the calling,their song, because you are to busy waiting for that big love that may never appear...
Enjoy and experience all of the love around you, on your way...
Teach others how to love, especially those that think they have forgotten or cannot.
Allow others to love you in their own ways and enjoy, that it is enough.
Some of those soulmates who have traveled with me in this lifetime are still with me and they know who they are...
Others have come and gone having contact for as long as was needed.. but we all know that we'll meet again
Maybe next time we'll reincarnate in another star system and on another planet...
Although I remember Atlantis that was really wonderful for as long as it lasted...
Till we meet again.


11 September 2013

Why do they wipe our memories out in between incarnations?

I had an interesting question from a friend and I want to share it with you too.....Nancy why do they wipe our memories out in between incarnations?

They wipe out our memories so that we can live our current lives fully... we come here with specific lessons to learn and if we remembered to much about our past lives we wouldn't get the 'fresh' outlook thats needed to learn them.
But iI don't think that ALL of our memories are truly wiped out... we bring things over with us attitudes, likes and dislikes and sometimes we even bring fears that have to do with past lives.
We do draw on things that we've learned in other lives like how some people have a knack for say playing the piano etc when no one has taught them.
I also think that if we need to remember certain things this time around we bring that knowledge, attitudes with us or talents because maybe we need them to learn the current lessons.

then some of us remember... meditation helps us to remember and integrate past lives with the current one. I've remembered so many and had visions that have explained so much about myself through the years that I feel I'm sort of putting all of my lives together to make sense in a complete package. So this life now might be sort of a review life where I tie up lose ends in prep for more lives to come.

there is also the belief that we are part of an overall soul group nd all of our lives are lived like the spokes of a wheel and the source of who we are fully, is in the middle. I had the experience of meeting a man briefly in my life and I was able to celebrate his birthday party. I felt like I knew him but I had only met him this one time. Later that night I had a vision in my dreams and was shown that he IS myself. I was shown another girl,  similar age living in Brooklyn she was another spoke and I could feel how she felt. She was very lonely and so I projected myself to her and gave her a hug. It wasn't long after this that I was told she had died.
So  I am one spoke of this wheel and they are anothers.... living in body at the same time. As life caries on and the twelve or so that I was shown on this wheel die their energy or vitality are given to those that are still living.
this is a personal truth that I was given in a vision....

hope this helps